Use comment status and type to set $maybe_notify default

src/wp-includes/comment.php

@@ -2472,15 +2472,27 @@ function wp_new_comment_notify_moderator( $comment_id ) {
  */
 function wp_new_comment_notify_postauthor( $comment_id ) {
 	$comment = get_comment( $comment_id );
+	if ( ! ( $comment instanceof WP_Comment ) ) {
+		return false;
+	}
 	$is_note = ( $comment && 'note' === $comment->comment_type );
 
-	$maybe_notify = $is_note ? get_option( 'wp_notes_notify', 1 ) : get_option( 'comments_notify' );
+	// By default, only notify for approved comments and notes.
+	if ( '1' !== $comment->comment_approved && ! $is_note ) {
+		$maybe_notify = false;
+	} else if ( $is_note ) {
+		$maybe_notify = get_option( 'wp_notes_notify', 1 );
+	} else {
+		$maybe_notify = get_option( 'comments_notify' );
+	}
 
 	/**
-	 * Filters whether to send the post author new comment notification emails,
-	 * overriding the site setting.
+	 * Filters whether to send the post author new comment and note notification emails,
+	 * overriding the site settings and defaults. By default, notifications are sent for
+	 * all notes and for approved comments.
 	 *
 	 * @since 4.4.0
+	 * @since 6.9.0 Comment approval status is checked before this filter.
 	 *
 	 * @param bool $maybe_notify Whether to notify the post author about the new comment.
 	 * @param int  $comment_id   The ID of the comment for the notification.
@@ -2495,13 +2507,6 @@ function wp_new_comment_notify_postauthor( $comment_id ) {
 		return false;
 	}
 
-	// Send notifications for approved comments and all notes.
-	if (
-		! isset( $comment->comment_approved ) ||
-		( '1' !== $comment->comment_approved && ! $is_note ) ) {
-			return false;
-	}
-
 	return wp_notify_postauthor( $comment_id );
 }